At the beginning of the millennium (remember Y2K) the LGBT Community was at a crossroad of which direction would we take. We were comfortable with basically non-existent rights but still had a hunger for more acceptances; a bigger piece of the pie; a place at the table, so to speak. Yet equality seemed like a vision that we could see, but really did not expect to experience in the near future. But something happened. A spark was lit and with media programing such as Queer As Folks and Will and Grace , we entered the homes of Middle America. Then Ellen became the daughter /granddaughter/sister that everyone loves. And slowly we all start coming out. And it’s not as scary as we thought it would be. For some, it was and still is a struggle, but for many of us, we are out there and as charming and witty as Mitchell and Cameron on Modern Family.